Saturday, February 19, 2011

How to have perfect sex

How exactly do you define “perfect” sex? Well, perfect sex varies from person to person, and what may be considered perfect for some, is anything but for others. However, there are ways in which you can have sex that is perfect for you, and for your partner.

Letting Go:
What do you think prevents you from having mind blowing, exhilarating, and well, perfect sex? For many men and women it is their inhibitions. The inability to let go, throw caution to the wind, and be wild and free in bed is one that hinders the sex lives of many people, and overcoming the problem takes time and patience. Before sex mentally coach yourself, take steps to make yourself feel sexier whether it be a wax, new lingerie, masturbation, or any other technique that gets you primed for action. Extend foreplay, try new ways to arouse your partner and yourself, and take small steps in learning to be more vocal, more open to new things, and ideally, much more free between the sheets. The earlier you begin working at it, the sooner you will start enjoying sex to the fullest.

Extended Foreplay:
Another common issue in the sex lives of many people is the lack of foreplay, whether it be totally non-existent, or just not enough of it. Foreplay is a vital part of a fulfilling sexual encounter. It is what sets the mood, gets the blood pumping, and basically sets the stage for the entire event. Without foreplay, or enough of it, sex is less enjoyable for many people. If this is an issue in your sex life, talk to your partner about it, and take the initiative to start the foreplay yourself. Great foreplay often means great sex.

Know Yourself:
One sure fire way to ensure great sex is to know yourself: what gets your motor running, what brings you the most pleasure, and how you want to be treated in the bedroom. Spend some alone time with yourself, exploring your body, learning what gives you pleasure. Try new things with your partner, new positions or techniques, and see what works best for you. Learning what pleases you most is another way in adding perfection to your sexual experiences.

Shaking it Up:
Variety is the spice of life, and it can also add a tremendous amount of spice to your sex life. Routine can quickly become boring, and when having sex at the same time, in the same place, each and every time, it can start to feel more like a chore than an erotic experience. Shake things up a bit! Try new things: unique positions, role playing, using toys, or whatever works for you. Keeping things fresh and interesting is vital in great, and perfect, sex.

While aiming for the goal of perfect sex you are sure to have a ton of fun, learn new tricks and techniques, and get to know yourself and your partner even more. Using these tips you will have reached your goal in no time, and have a lifetime of perfect sex ahead of you to enjoy.


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